Normal Gays

Some of you have been asking me, "What is a normal gay? How do you define normal?" (Remember, this is all my personal opinion).

For me, a normal gay is someone who does not fit into the subculture and stereotypical gay community. A normal gay is a man, who doesn't go clubbing every weekend, does drink fruity appletini's, and doesn't participate in promiscuous sex. Now, I know for a fact, that there are gays out there who do go clubbing and drink appletini's but don't participate in sexual behavior, they are almost normal. To me.

To me, a normal gay is a man who does what he believes to be right and doesn't fit the stereotype. A normal gay is a man who doesn't wear designer jeans, tight button up shirts, with a fauxhawk hairstyle...he wears normal clothes, looks nice, but doesn't follow the whole metrosexual-gay-look.

A normal gay man is someone who does not let his sexuality dictate what type of life he should live. Just because he is attracted to other men, does not mean that he must go and be the diva who rides on the top of the 1st float in the PRIDE parade. A normal gay man isn't the type of man who wears woman's clothing just because...he's gay, that's what he is supposed to do.

That is what a normal gay man to me is like. He is just a man, who likes men. And that is it. However, I do not and will never hate the stereotypical gay men and lifestyle. They are my brothers and sisters and I love them and I support them. If you are the stereotypical gay man, then...hurrah for you. I love you and I support you.

I just don't think I could date you :)